Our Bereavement Committee is an amazingly dedicated group of volunteers, who under the guidance of Pastoral Associate Ken Meymann, help people through the funeral planning process and beyond. In response to a significant need that was perceived by the parishioners and the priests, Marilyn Coffaro and Rita Griffin started the Bereavement Committee.
It is truly a labor of love for all those involved. The process takes the family of the deceased through the whole funeral: initial contact from the funeral home or the family, contact with the priest who will celebrate the funeral Mass, gathering the family to plan the funeral liturgy, including lectors, Eucharistic ministers, music, petitions, program design, timing of a eulogy, pall bearers, servers, and planning of the graveside service and anything and everything in between! If the family gets overwhelmed by the decisions ahead, they offer to pitch in to assume any role, as readers or Eucharistic ministers or whatever gap needs to be filled. They are ready and willing.
Our committee takes each funeral personally: they are hosting the funeral in “our house” and do everything they can to make the family and whole congregation welcome. They try to meet the needs of all present, even if it means finding a source of calories for a diabetic person experiencing low blood sugar. They are true ministers. And as all good ministers are, they are good listeners.
Our committee is motivated to give back for those that helped them with their families funerals in the past. They support the families in their most vulnerable time of need, losing one of their family members. They feel uplifted and blessed by the whole process of service to another, following the greatest commandment to love thy neighbor. By doing this ministry they experience the real good in people. They find that funerals are a reaffirmation of life, a positive event, full of love and caring for others in need.
The process doesn’t stop there. Bill Tonnis, Pastoral Associate for Outreach, calls on each family at an appropriate time after the funeral. A series of books of grief support are sent out at regular intervals to help in the grieving process.
All who have their funerals here are remembered during a special Mass on All Souls Day, this year on Monday, November 2nd at 7 p.m.
Our Kudos go out to the dedicated members of the Bereavement Committee, their selfless gift to the families of the deceased and to all of us in this parish. They truly are the face of Jesus for those in need. May God’s blessing continue to fall to each of them, may the Holy Spirit continue to inspire them, and may we all continue to pray for them.
Kudos Corner salutes: Marge Byrne, Joanne Coffaro, Marilyn Coffaro, Virginia Cushard, Peggy Flanigan, Dorothy Gillman, Rita Griffin, Cristina Holmes, Marilyn Jackson Marx, Pat Kiehl, Gwynne Krekeler, Marcella Leibel, Ann Macke, Monica McCullough, Judy Mellott, Ken Meymann, Thelma Murray, Sandy Peter, Dorothy Rasfeld, Sue Schwarz and Char Tribbe.